That late-night call may feel like one of “the signs,” but is it really love or just an invitation to another tryst? Here, you can learn to read those signs.
Since a few months ago, you’ve been seeing your booty call almost every other night. You’ve never met someone so reliable when it comes to your sexy dates.
You start to feel confused when you start to miss them when they’re not around and call them when it’s daytime instead of just seeing them briefly at night. You realize that you miss them. You start thinking about them while you’re at work or at random times during the day.
Are you falling for your booty call already?
Things your call girl does that might look like love but aren’t. You might think that someone falling in love with you physically is one of the most obvious signs, but when you think about it, you might be confusing physical pleasure for an emotional connection.
#1: The first rule of a booty call is that it does not stay in bed.
Booty calls are meant to help you get over being horny when you need to. They are not meant to stay with you afterward to cuddle or spoon. You can’t even ask them to stay the night. If you start to want them to spend the night with you, this could be a problem, especially if your booty call says no.
Even though it might be hard for them to get back home, that doesn’t mean they want to hang out with you. Second, they might be so drunk or tired that they can’t even move or get dressed. Again, this is not proof that they love you, so don’t take it for real love.
#2: Your booty call sends you a message during the day.
The message showed that the person wanted to do something sexual quickly in the middle of a cold afternoon. Your heart starts to beat faster, and blood starts to rush to your head, making you redden. You believe this is the end. Your booty call has crossed the line where it is no longer a booty call to someone who can see you during the day. Is that right?
No, your booty call still doesn’t like you. Your booty call might be very horny and can’t wait until tonight.
#3: "Booty calls" belong in the bedroom and should stay there.
Unless, of course, your booty call asks you for pancakes or bacon and eggs out of the blue. You think, “Well, this is it!” Your booty call is an invitation to breakfast, which could also mean they want more than just sex.
No, you’re mistaken again. Could it be that your booty call got hungry after you and your friend stayed up all night? Or your booty call doesn’t have time to eat breakfast and get to work, so having breakfast ready now is very helpful for them.
#4 A booty call isn't just made for breakfast; it's also made for lunch and dinner.
So, your boo calls and wants to meet up for dinner before you go to his or her place. Or maybe, after you do all of those things for breakfast, you stay in bed and your booty call decides to stay until lunch. They might just be hungry, or they might not want to let go of you yet in case they get horny again.
#5 Your booty call will only call or text you at night, and it will never ask how you're doing.
They call you and say they want to meet up with you during the day, but they don’t say anything about having sex. You are now in the land of “it’s not all about sex”!
The problem with this is that your booty call might need a partner or a friend for something and not be able to find anyone to fill the spot. These “somethings” might include getting help with heavy-duty chores or having someone around to watch their dog. Clearly, that’s nothing like real love.
#6 You have never been asked how you are doing by your booty call, but you just got a message asking how you are doing.
Oh! You must have found the sign you were looking for! No, your booty call doesn’t love you again. Nor should you do the same to them. If your booty call cared about you, they would ask this question all the time, not just when they felt like it. They will be there for you not just at night, but whenever you need them, day or night.
Asking about your day is normal, even for a booty call. Of course, they want to get to know you, unless they’re completely emotionless and don’t care about you as anything other than someone they could sleep with.
#7: You saw your boo out with their friends, and they told you who they were.
If there is a heaven for love, you must be there. Your call is putting you in touch with their friends. Here we are! Most likely, your booty call is in love with you and wants the whole world to know about it. Or not.
Did you ever think of the person who called you “booty” was just being polite and that you couldn’t get away from the situation? After all, it would be very rude if they just said “hi” without introducing themselves or, even worse, if they didn’t say anything at all.
#8: You want to be the only one on your booty call, so you call or text them whenever you have time.
You may both be free to hang out whenever you want, but what you do together is more important than how often you see each other. If you challenge your booty call to be available not just at night but also at different times during the day, they will think you are always horny.
When they say yes to every meeting, it’s just a sign that they don’t mind having sex with you and are probably also horny or don’t have anything else to do. Is he only interested for the wrong reasons? It could also mean that they don’t want to lose you as a booty call just yet, so they give in to your every wish. But it’s clear that more sex is not the same thing as love. Not just yet.
#9: You ask your booty call if they're sleeping with someone else.
Only you, they say. You now think you’re in a relationship with only one person. Wasn’t that a quick turn of events?
First of all, you should never ask that. Why? Unless you don’t use condoms when you have sex, it’s not really your business to ask who else your booty call is sleeping with.
#10 Which brings me to my next point:
Just because your booty call only sleeps with you doesn’t mean you’re in an exclusive relationship. Never use a booty call to try to figure out what the relationship is. It is what it is: sexy, fun, and laid-back. If there are signs that your physical relationship could become more emotional, don’t just rely on those signs. If you want them to do something more, all you have to do is ask. Never think.
How to deal with a difficult relationship
Some booty calls can lead to a real, loving relationship, but many of them are just for one night of fun and then leave you feeling emotionally empty. Don’t think you’ve found love if all you have to hold on to is those late-night booty calls.
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